A private client told me just this weekend that she’s quitting online dating after three bad dates in a row.Here is what I wrote back to her: First of all, I’ve had EVERY bad dating experience you can possibly imagine.Most of the people that write about online dating write about what’s wrong with it. I mean, that’s what news is – emphasize the bad, misery loves company, etc.
We have our small lives: our circle of married friends, our work buddies, a few single people, and that’s it.
And as you get into your mid-30’s, the bar scene is really old and set-ups have become a bit of a joke. But because it creates opportunity where previously there was none. My best friend in New York is marrying a man she met on e Harmony. My sister’s best friend is in love with a man she met on e Harmony. So as I see it, you have two choices: quit online dating and make a supreme effort to go to as many parties, coffee shops and adult education classes as possible OR try to find a way to avoid the worst of the online daters.
I don’t deny ANYBODY the negative experiences that they’ve had.
I just urge people to find some healthier perspective on the whole thing.
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I was curious as to what your real opinion is of online dating.
” Or you can ask, “How can I make this work for me, despite the obvious flaws? But I’ll tell you, all it takes is one person – and you’ll be standing right with me.
When my father heard I was online dating he was deeply sceptical.
Average review will be 2 out of 5 stars or something like that. Because people who get married from online dating sites rarely get back online to post happy reviews on websites.