Look, I get it: you’ve been getting Oompa Loompa jokes since forever.
Presence is, simply, your ability to command people’s attention.
It’s the way that you can make people focus on present.
The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.
Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.
OK, before you click the back button in disgust, hear me out. We inevitably find our focus divided among the million little things that occupy our attention.
But when we feel like someone is giving us their listening instead of waiting for your turn to talk – is absurdly powerful.
You may think that you’re hiding it like the professional poker-player you could be, but in reality, that sour attitude is shining off you like an especially greasy halo.
potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.
When you can build presence, women won’t remember you as that short man at the party.
They’ll remember you as that incredibly charming guy who made them feel like he got them in a way nobody else did.
Even subtle patterns in the fabric, such as herringbone weaves, can help you slim your visual profile and make you seem taller.