Ask her to get a quick drink this week and take a chance with the talk.2.Wait it out with 3 weeks of NC (or more) and then meet up with her for the talk.3.I was really starting to think there was long-term potential here.
I'd plan to move on with my life, begin dating new girls, and put this experience behind me once and for all.
In fact, I've already become active again on the dating site I met her on and I'm talking to a few girls. Aside from just moving on altogether, here are what I see as the three paths I can take:1.
I told her I felt she was great, and that I was surprised and upset by this all.
As for keeping in touch, I told her I'd need some time to think about that and see how I feel before I could make a decision.
It was slightly more complicated in that when we met she had a boyfriend, but she wasn't happy and we really connected on all levels.
She left him at the weekend, went to my place, but broke down the next morning because she missed him.
We were all there on paper and I feel like the connection is something that builds up some more over time.
It's been a week now and I haven't reached out to her or heard from her.
She was also adamant about the fact that she's always enjoyed herself while out with me..for whatever reason, she felt that our personalities didn't entirely connect and there was some kind of distance holding us back from clicking and getting closer the way she'd have expected to after three months.