Read on to the “Dirty Talk: Beginner Level” section for some examples of places to start, or go with something from the heart (or crotch).
Want some soft/easy starters for your titillating texts?
And while you’re fooling around, giving your partner real time feedback about what you’re enjoying is a great way to encourage them to give you more of that thing, and also gives your sexual play the added edge of becoming more of a multi-sensory experience.
For a lot of people, it’s the details of dirty talk that make it so much of a turn on.
As you might know, if you’ve been reading my work for a while, I have a tendency to gravitate to fairly polarized sex.
Which means that the dominant/submissive roles play themselves out in my dirty talk quite a bit.
Try out any of the following:– I’m really looking forward to seeing you tonight. – I’m having a really hard time focusing at work today…
I think we should have some fun ; )– You should probably already have your pants off when I get home… can’t stop thinking about that thing that we did on our date last night ; )– Mmm… You certainly know how to show a lady/guy a good time.
You are the sexiest person on the planet.”“You look so hot right now” turns into “You are better than any fantasy I could ever come up with.
I fucking love you and your perfect/delicious/sexy big/little (body part).”“I love having sex with you” transforms into “I love it when you grab the sheets when you’re about to come.
Whether you’re starting out with dirty talk for the first time ever, or you’re starting to have sex with a new partner and just want to slowly test the waters, the following phrases have you covered.– That feels amazing baby– Come sit on my lap, love– Mmm… – I’m getting so turned on/wet/hard– Tell me what you like/if this is too hard/when you’re about to come– You look so beautiful/handsome/gorgeous/manly right now– What do you feel like doing to me?
– I love how you look at me when you’re turned on– You can have me any way you want me baby– Mmm…
Make sure you check in with your partner (outside of the bedroom) to see if there’s any words that they want you to avoid during your dirty talk.