Over 40 and dating again

The Wow Me Woman The Wow Me Woman is a midlife gal who still thinks that excitement is the key to judging if a guy is a good match. Men sense her quick judgment, which leaves them feeling deflated, unattractive and powerless.

She’s looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all about herself, and give her butterflies…all on the first date. That man then makes a poor impression (understandably), and the date is chalked up to another “he just wasn’t right for me” experience.

(Which usually doesn’t last very long since, no matter how pretty and smart she is, she is no fun to be around.) The truth is that The Bitter Gal has been playing the victim for most (if not all) of her life.

The Princess has an “I deserve it” attitude and has little or no concern for how she can make the other person happy.

She insists he give and give with little or no reciprocity; after all, he’s the The Man and she’s his prize!

The wall she has erected is just too high for him to climb in order to get to the other side.

Since trust and affection are what men yearn for from women, he usually does her a favor and leaves…hence rendering her “right” once again.

So I thought I’d tell you about the experience men have when they’re trying to “date like a grownup.” If you’ve read my e Book, you know that I believe strongly that empathizing with men is absolutely essential to your dating and relationship success.

The definition of empathy is “the power of understanding and imaginatively entering into another person’s feelings.The Scaredy Cat he Scaredy Cat has been emotionally wounded by men in the past, and she can’t let go of it.She mistrusts men and often blames herself for the rejection she’s felt, believing that she just wasn’t good enough.So the only way you really can empathize is to know their side of the story.Men and women are different in many ways, but we’re more the same than you may think. We all have dating disappointments and horror stories.The Sexpot The Sexpot is all about putting out the sex vibe.

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