I picked it back up maybe three or four years after catching the posts on BP. In my younger years it was more about getting off now it is different hard to explain but I enjoy the touch of someone else and the occasional tease. It gets dull doing the same old thing for the last 40 years. Main reason initially was that, being a tit man with a small-chested wife, I wanted to play with some C's and D's, and also get a 'strange' The only difference between bigmac48 and me is our age.
I am 63 and still go regularly.64 and only discovered the hobby 2 years ago. Well you have to have time and money, when I was younger, I was less willing to consider this entertainment for those and other reasons67 and been in this hobby for 4 years. I started last year at 45 but the reason is exactly the same as his: My wife has and had health issues and our encounters are few and far in between. Have been visiting off and on for maybe over 40 years, first before married and unwilling to put up with the repercussions of the bar scene, later as home availability has devolved to nothing.
Several years ago I was visiting weekly, or more, for about 3 years. @traderjones i couldn't agree more with your comments and sense of humor.d)50 , actually almost seventy. I'm 59 in a few months, and I wish I had the money I've spent on this "near addiction" to mongering.
Over the last few years I have slowed down a bit but only because of health reasons... My wife is so close-minded about sex, that we haven't had it in over 15 years, and I've stayed sane by connecting up with these younger and younger Asian woman.
I have found Asian women haven't forgotten how to have fun in life. Just take a look around sometime and look at the faces of white women over 40 walking down the street...there are no smiles and they looked pissed off..90% of them..I started in my mid 20's in the late seventies. One of my more pleasant discoveries after retiring. I find I can only do this with the younger girls 25-35, Older ladies see thru me but luv it when I show up and they come to room with only a smile and a towel ready for kissing licking and fucking.....
I went off an on until I went through a divorce and than stopped for ten to twelve years no money my ex had it all. 95% are Korean, with a few Vietnamese Thais and girls that grew up in Guam ,,,,,its an addiction not sure I could stop if I wanted to which I don't...I get tired of same I just stop going to that spot for a 6 months or so60. Just too frustrated with older married life, with gal that just won't do anything new or adventurous. Been doing this for about a dozen years here in south Florida.
Feel less judgemental, more accepting of lifestyle, personal needs, simply providing a service for a fee. What's disappointing to me is that nowadays it is hard to find a decent white girl doing this, although there are some that advertise, and there are no more massage parlors with white girls, which used to exist. The reason I started going was that the girl I was seeing would have me strip, she'd remove her top and let me play with/kiss/suck on her breasts/nipples, but she would do nothing but run her fingers thru my chest hair.
I worry also that very young and very pretty girls could be victims of forcible involvement and I really do not want to be enabling any kind of sex slavery. We used to have them in areas like Hollywood and Pomona Valley, but they were closed down about 20 years ago. After about 3-4 months of this and then going home and jacking off nightly I needed some other relief/release. I also started with massages because my back was giving me trouble, sciatic pain down my left leg.
Yes, you might care, might treat them well, might even love. It's not a bad thing, per say, but don't count it as a notch on your guitar. Soon found out I could take care of both problems in one place! The good thing about being older is that you don't worry too much about not having six-pack abs or a 10" johnson, so it's just about having fun and making the girl's day a bit brighter.
All of these are fine, but don't forget the bottom line of all this. It's not that stylish, and your family doesn't know about it, do they? It's a shadow activity, Now, maybe you can actually find somebody, start a real relationship with one of these women (not drinks and dinner blah blah), see where it goes. That's why I rarely haggle about the tip, and in most cases give it to the provider before the session has even started.
Feel like older women will be less attractive to slavers so more likely to be involved simply as a life choice for acceptable income level, and don't go home at night smelling like a big mac! I knew of an but it was about 100 miles away, but it eventually was like a magnet pulling me there. Was lucky, traveled the world, some day I should figure out how many countries I've had successful mongering. Massages helped and specifically to the back of the thigh up close to my butt.
A great time was had..girl that took care of me commented on the load I shot ("You must not have sex for a month..cum a gallon! Shortly after I visited, the girl I was seeing started doing more and within two weeks we were doing while involved in a relationship. It seemed like I got aroused every time I got a massage and made the connection that if I could find the right type of parlor, I'd get some action as well as pain relief.
My goal is to fuck at least one girl from every country in the world. I am so lucky to have a huge selection of parlors and providers.