These challenges can be common with Asian girls, and is a virtual certainty with native Asian girls.
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That being said, telling me, a white guy, how people respond to me romantically when you yourself are not a white guy automatically makes your opinion have less weight than mine — this is obvious but often a forgotten point.
There are some big obstacles you’ll be faced with being a “white guy” in Asia.
Any self-aware man who was once really bad with women knows that shaming women for their sexuality is a way to deal with the frustration of not being a part of it.
Accepting the fact that you’re just a lonely confused guy is too hard, so it’s just easier to rationalize that the girl kissing her boyfriend in the street is just a slut.
In Asia, there’s a lot of shame surrounding intimacy that is so damaging and dysfunctional Many Asian girls are programmed to suppress their interest in sex and intimacy, hide it or deny it.
If they display or admit at all that they want or even like sex or touch, they risk being seen as a “slut” — in Japan they’re called a “bitch” or in China/HK, a “public toilet.” Their sense of self is at risk, and their reputation is at risk if they show an interest in sex.
This, in my opinion, is the most challenging reality of approaching and dating Asian girls.
In the East, girls have extreme pressure to “appear” pure, clean, polite and innocent.
Views on sex, status, interracial dating, affection in public, marriage, humor and even talking to strangers can be taboo.
An example of this would be in Korea — heavy eye contact can be considered rude, and thus giving a girl eye contact may cause anxiety instead of attraction.
It would be like a black guy being offended by the “big penis” stereotype, right?